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How it works
Share your neighborhood, schedule, budget, and what you need in a nanny share.
We surface families nearby whose needs align with yours, ranked by compatibility.
Reach out, meet up, and find your nanny together — at no cost.
FAQ
Common questions about nanny shares
What is a nanny share?+
A nanny share is a childcare arrangement where two or more families hire a single nanny to care for their children together — typically in one family's home on a rotating schedule. Families split the nanny's compensation, so each pays a fraction of solo-nanny rates while the children still receive attentive, personalized care and gain natural socialization with their share sibling.
How do I find another family for a nanny share in San Francisco?+
Traditionally, families posted in neighborhood Facebook groups, Nextdoor, or relied on word-of-mouth — a slow, unstructured process that leads to lots of mismatched conversations. NestPair was built specifically to solve this. Post your listing, answer a few questions about your schedule and preferences, and instantly see ranked matches with families who are already a strong fit before you ever pick up the phone.
How does NestPair work?+
Post your listing with details about your location, care schedule, budget, and what you're looking for in a share family. NestPair's matching algorithm surfaces compatible families ranked by compatibility score. Browse profiles, see exactly why each family is a strong fit, and reach out directly through built-in messaging — all for free.
How much does a Bay Area nanny share typically cost?+
In the Bay Area, nanny shares can typically cost each family between $20–$26+ per hour, depending on the nanny's experience, the number of children, and the specific schedule. A solo nanny in San Francisco often runs $30–$40+ per hour, so a nanny share can cut that cost significantly while maintaining high-quality, attentive one-on-one care.
What's important to consider in a family you'd partner with for a nanny share?+
The most important factors are: geographic proximity (shorter commutes mean more reliable arrangements), overlapping care schedules, compatible parenting philosophies, similar budgets, and children close in age. Values around nutrition, screen time, and discipline matter too. Communication style is equally critical — you'll be co-managing a caregiver together, so trust and transparency from the start make all the difference.